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Amanda and
Jimmy
Danced their first
dance in New
York Harbor with
the Manhattan
Skyline and the
Statue of Liberty
lighting up their
night!
While the depths of love you and your beloved share run far deeper than mere words can ever
hope to express, there is still the licensing and paperwork, held so dear by the laws of man and
state, to be dealt with. Yes, ever since the beginning of time it seems that when it comes to
marriage there was always a contract!
The New York State Marriage License
"http://www.health.state.ny.us/nysdoh/consumer/vr/married.htm"
This link is to the New York State Department of Health and the information there is straight
from the horses mouth so to speak, on how to get married in New York State.

The license is a state wide license, so it can be issued from anywhere in New York and the
ceremony can take place anywhere in the state. If you are being married in the State of New
York you must have a New York Marriage License. If you are from out of town, a license
from your home state cannot be used in New York.

You will need 2 forms of ID for Long Island Town and City Halls.
This means Birth certificate or Baptismal Certificate plus Drivers License or Passport.
See link above for alternate forms of ID.

The City of New York now accepts a single piece of ID if it's a Passport or Drivers License.
See link below for more NYC information.

If you or your fiancé were previously married you will need proof
of termination of any previous marriages (original or certified copy)

The license is good for 60 days, but takes 24 hours to mature.

Your officiant has 5 days to return the Marriage License to the clerk's office that issued it.
The clerk then sends the couple a Certificate of Marriage. Processing time depends on the
office and the time of year, however you are legally married from the date and time you took
your vows, as indicated on the Marriage License.

The City of New York is different than Long Island on some points.
They offer a service where you can fill out the marriage online,
then go there together within 20 days with your ID to pick it up.
(
City of NY City Clerk's Website)
NYC does NOT TAKE CASH $35.00 money order, certified check, or credit card.
On LI it's $40.00 and cash is good.

Lost your original Birth Certificate? No problem here's where to get a replacement:
http://www.health.state.ny.us/vital_records/birth.htm

Where do you go to get a Marriage License? Click below for a list
City and Town Hall Locations

Changing Your Name

Domestic Partnership
On May 29, 2008, Governor David Paterson directed all New York state agencies to begin to
revise their policies and regulations to recognize same-sex marriages performed in other
jurisdictions, including Massachusetts, Vermont, Iowa, Connecticut, Maine and Canada. So
many same sex couples are choosing to do their paperwork out of state rather than go the
domestic partnership route. On the other hand many heterosexual couples who buy a home and
have joint assets before they are married like the security that a domestic partnership provides.

http://www.cityclerk.nyc.gov./html/marriage/domestic_partnership_reg.shtml
This link is to the website of The City Clerk's Office. There's a link to the left called "domestic
partnership" that defines what a domestic partnership is and gives the details on how to get one
in NYC.

In October of 2006 Suffolk County began a county wide registry. What does that mean? It
means less benefits than a Civil Union, way less benefits than a Full Marriage, but it is some
degree of protection and integration under the law. For details see the link below
http://www.co.suffolk.ny.us/Clerk/ACF147.pdf
For more information call 631-852-2000

Getting Married in New Jersey?
http://www.state.nj.us/health/vital/marriage_apply.shtml
Here's a link for you. Your license is good for six months and takes 72 hours to mature. Print
the forms before you go to the clerk and save some time.

Some Honeymoon locations give you free stuff with proof that you are indeed on your
Honeymoon. But
never give anyone a copy of your license without first taking a big black
magic marker to your mothers maiden name and your social security number. Everything
needed for identity theft is on that document.

Please be advised that there are precedent setting cases in New York State and Nationally,
where thousands of couples who were married by internet ordained clergy, and others who had
no physical congregation, or whose physical congregations did not meet the states criteria,
were ruled
never legally married, even after the certificate came from the state stating the
opposite. See McKinney's Law, New York State Domestic Law, Ravenel vs Ravenel, or
consult your lawyer for more details. I'm not trying to sell you anything, and I'm not
suggesting that if you have chosen a friend to marry you that you change who you have
performing the public celebration of your marriage. But the paperwork is another matter.
Leaving a back door open is no way to enter into a life long commitment unless of course you
are not sure that you want to be married. The fee at the City Clerks Office in Manhattan is
$25.00 and most Long Island town clerks have a day where they will perform ceremonies for
town residents. Babylon's is Thursday mornings and it is at
no charge to the couple. Please
call your local town hall for more details. Protect yourselves and your future by making this
decision carefully...

Where can you ask if I am legally able to marry you?
There is no such thing as a State wide registration. NYC is the only place that actually checks
an officiant's authority. I am registered with the City of New York - Office of the City Clerk
as Officiant #9484
(I feel like such an old lady!
New officiants are getting numbers that are almost twice that long)
click here for documentation
Click on the Church Banner to email me or Call
516-785-4191
Anytime!
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