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wonderful, warm, and smart and kind
as every other reviewer on this site has
mentioned. She helped create an
amazingly heartfelt and personal
ceremony that I’m sure we will
remember forever. Our guests and
family raved about how personal and
romantic it was. Exactly what we were
hoping! We had a great time during our
ceremony, giggling and enjoying what
was an incredibly intense 20 min! It
was perfect and we LOVED every
second!
Photo by Kelly Guenther
Maureen and Michael
Renewal of Vows

~ Moment of Remembrance ~

“It is Maureen and Michael’s wish that as we get started today you all join with
them in a moment to remember Michael’s father Nick and brother Steven, whose
names and spirits live on in Maureen and Michael’s son Steven. Let us also
remember all of the other loved ones who for what ever reason could not be here
physically, but who are here in spirit, Maureen and Michael a lifetime of
happiness.”

Pause


~ Opening Words ~

“Dear friends and family, we are gathered here today to join in celebration of the
many blessings that Maureen and Michael already share. If our lives are as a
strand of pearls, the memories that we share of events like this, are a gift that we
give to those who are important to us. The thread that holds everything together
and the moments of a lifetime are equally important, but it is the sharing of them
with those we love that adds the luster! It was a year ago that Maureen and
Michael first made their promises of “for better or worse”… and what a year it has
been for them! They have been blessed with a beautiful son and a home of their
own, and although it hasn’t been easy the rewards have been well worth the effort.
The potential of love is limitless, yet it is marriage that brings it’s highest
fulfillment. The levels of commitment they share are like nothing they have ever
known before. The realization of what it is to be married, to be joined in spirit and
in flesh as husband and wife and parents has for them been an amazing journey.”

“As it is said in Psalm 118:24
‘This is the day the Lord has made...
let us be glad and rejoice in it.’”

~ Welcoming of the Guests ~

“Maureen and Michael would like to take a moment to thank all of you for being
here with them today. Their parents who, taught them to cherish friends and family
and who have set a wonderful example of what it means to be married through all
of the difficult and wonderful things that the years bring. The bridal party, for all
the effort that it takes, to be not only a part of a wedding day, but also a part of
their lives. And all of you, who have won a place in their hearts that earn you the
title of family. Through your countless acts of love and kindness and unwavering
support, in so many ways, you have made their lives rich beyond measure of the
material world. To have so many of you here, who love them and want to
celebrate this day with them is such a blessing in today’s world. Your presence
was the only thing missing from their first ceremony, and the only thing that now
makes the happiest day of their lives sparkle and shine just a little bit brighter. So
once again, thanks for coming!”

~ Rose Ceremony ~

“Donna and Barbara, as the future comes from the past, know that without you this
day would not be taking place. As we all know marriage is a coming together of
two lives and a celebration of the love of two people. But it is so much more than
that alone. The love that Maureen and Michael feel for one another is the
flowering of a seed planted by you in their hearts years ago. The very reason they
know how to give and receive love itself is a direct result of the love that they
were shown by you their mothers as they grew into the man and woman that we
see here today. Your children love you very much and thought that now would be
the perfect time to remind you of this, by offering you these symbols of eternal
love, these roses.”

The Bride and Grooms mothers are presented each with a rose

“May you be blessed with many healthy happy years of watching the next
generation thrive.”

~ Maureen and Michael ~

“When asked to tell me a little about themselves Maureen began by calling
Michael her angel. His support has become as vital as the air she breathes. He in
turn knows beyond a shadow of a doubt that there is nothing she would not risk for
him, for she has already proven that he can trust her with his very life. She was
there for him in his time of need and their relationship progressed quickly. They
came to each other when both were at a place in their lives when their walls were
down, and they were each ready to accept the love of a lifetime. There has always
been an ease of communication between them and theirs is a love that grows
stronger every day. Michael has a protective and gentlemanly quality that reminds
Maureen of her father. They share the same sense of family values and have
similar backgrounds. Confirming their choice in one another has been the fact that
the people they each love most on the world have come together as smoothly as if
they were merely the family each had just not met yet.

To get a better glimpse of what love, their relationship and marriage truly means
from their perspective Maureen and Michael have chosen to share with you these
words……

“This Day I Marry My Best Friend”
Author Unknown

“This day I marry my best friend
...the one I laugh with as we share life’s wondrous zest,
as we find new enjoyments and experience all that’s best.
...the one I live for because the world seems brighter
as our happy times are better
and our burdens feel much lighter.
...the one I love with every fiber of my soul.
We used to feel vaguely incomplete,
now together we are whole.”

addressing Bride and Groom

Today is the public affirmation and acknowledgment of all that you are to each
other. Seemingly your relationship will be as it has always been, yet there is a
power in the spoken word. May that power bring you all the warmth and
closeness, security and comfort, joy and happiness that this world has to offer.”


~ Invocation ~

"Maureen and Michael come before us today with precious gifts,
Their Love, their Faith in each other,
And their trust in many bright tomorrows.
Let us each pray in our own way
that they may find life’s deepest meaning.
And richest happiness.
That blessings shall forever continue to shine upon them,
Granting them prosperity and abundance,
Health and happiness, joy and peace
In both the physical and spiritual world
For all the days of their journey.”

~ Presentation of the Rings ~

“May I have the rings please?”

Officiant is given the rings

“It means the world to Maureen and Michael that they can proudly say they have
both come from families blessed with long and lasting marriages. The rings that
they are exchanging this day, like all rings with their perfect circles, speak of love
that has no beginning and no end. Yet these rings are very special as they were
exchanged thirty-three years ago with a promise of forever by Michael’s parents
Barbara and Nick. They honor and tap the strength of generations past and at the
same time they celebrate a future that belongs uniquely to Maureen and Michael.”


~ Ring Vows ~

“Maureen and Michael have chosen to write their own vows.
Michael will you now tell Maureen what is in your heart?”

Michael speaks his heart

“Will you now place the ring on Maureen‘s finger and repeat after me?”  

Michael places the ring half way on to Maureen’s finger

“Maureen, you are my life, my love, my best friend
And with this ring, I thee wed
May it be a reminder of how much I love you,
Not only on this precious day,
But every single day of my life.”

Michael places the ring the rest of the way on to Maureen’s finger

“Maureen will you now tell Michael what is in your heart?”

Maureen speaks her heart

“Will you now place the ring on Michael’s finger and repeat after me?”

Maureen places the ring half way onto Michael’s finger

“Michael, you are my life, my love, my best friend
And with this ring, I thee wed
May it be a reminder of how much I love you,
Not only on this precious day,
But every single day of my life.”

Maureen places the ring the rest of the way onto Michael’s finger

~
A Reading From the Gospel of Paul ~

“Maureen and Michael have chosen to close their ceremony with a reading from
the 1st Letter of Paul to the Corinthians.”

“Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful;
it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on
its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices
in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all
things. Love never ends; So in faith, hope, and love, abide these three; but know
the greatest of these is love.”

“As often as we hear this passage doesn’t it just say everything there is to be said
about the art of love, marriage, parenting and family so concisely and eloquently?
Maureen and Michael remember these words. And remember it is your humanness
that you love most in one another. It is what has made you each so special that you
have chosen to spend a lifetime exploring all many wondrous qualities God has
given each of you, to bring out the goodness in one another and to forgive the
mistakes that growing and learning means you will each make, knowing in your
hearts that your love is what matters most.

You are now as your hearts have always known you to be,
Husband and Wife. You may kiss your beautiful Bride!”

Bride and Groom kiss and exit to greet their guests!
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Rachel and Mickey's Renewal of  Vows
by Dr. Jerry Schwehm of New Orleans LA  


"People always say that they don't expect marriage to change them or their love.
With the promises you made on your wedding day, you felt  you had reached the
height of your relationship. For it’s true, it doesn’t get any  grander than it is on
that day! But what it does get as time goes by is deeper, and richer, and fuller as
you grow together.

 The rewards of a good marriage are an inner growth that two people become
interwoven into the fabric of one another’s life. This is what we are truly
celebrating today. Today we appreciate all the care and time and work you have
both given, that have brought you to the realization that you'd do it all over again.
For marriage, like life, is a journey and like this city you have chosen to renew
your vows in, there is no obstacle that shared love and dedication cannot over
come and even make better.

Your original ceremony was about all of your hopes and dreams for
the future. Today you have the opportunity to say "thank you" to one
another, to say that you'd do it all over again, and to reaffirming
your commitment to making all of your tomorrow's as good as your
yesterdays have been.

(Here Mickey and Rachel can say a few things to one another if they desire.)


~ The Ring Exchange ~

The ring finger of the left hand, the side of the body that holds the heart, was
chosen for the wedding band because for centuries people believed that there was
a vein that ran directly from that finger to the heart. They also believed that the
words spoken during the placing of the wedding band  would resonate over and
over again through the heart and soul of both giver and the receiver of the
promises made on the marriage date. The promise of a lifetime as husband and
wife. What may sound like an old wives tale to some has proven itself to be true
through out your life. Therefore that these rings shall not only celebrate the past,
but hold the promise of your continuing  journey is appropriate. Let them speak to
your hearts again.

Mickey do you have Rachel’s Ring to renew your vows?

Mickey: "Yes."

Slowly place it back on her finger and say to her.

“This ring I give you
In celebration of the love we share
And all that the future shall bring,
And with my heart,
I pledge to you once again that I am.
yours forever."

Rachel do you have Mickey’s Ring to renew your vows?

Rachel: "Yes"

Slowly place the ring on Mickey’s finger and say to him.

“This ring I give you
In celebration of the love we share
And all that the future shall bring,
And with my heart,
I pledge to you once again that I am.
yours forever.

~ Closing ~

Now that  you have again spoken words of love while placing of rings on each
others fingers. Those rings will continue to keep those words of love alive in your
hearts for many more years to come. Mickey and Rachel today you came
knowingly to renew your promises of love for one another, not as newly weds but
as committed husband and wife. With the knowledge that life is a journey you
have committed to travel together. Go now and enjoy the love you share
forevermore as husband and wife.
You may now kiss one another.